{"id":550,"date":"2013-01-13T20:50:51","date_gmt":"2013-01-13T12:50:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/?p=550"},"modified":"2026-03-09T10:21:01","modified_gmt":"2026-03-09T02:21:01","slug":"%e6%88%90%e9%95%bf%e4%b9%8b%e8%b7%af-good-good-studyday-day-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/?p=550","title":{"rendered":"\u6210\u957f\u4e4b\u8def\u2014\u6210\u4e3a\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u81ea\u5df1"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>\u4e00\u3001\u4eba\u751f\u7bc7<\/h1>\n<h3>1. \u54c1\u683c<\/h3>\n<p>\u5fc3\u80f8\u5bbd\u5e7f\uff0c\u76ee\u5149\u8fdc\u5927\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u4e0d\u8ba1\u8f83\u773c\u524d\u4e00\u70b9\u5f97\u5931\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5929\u884c\u5065\uff0c\u541b\u5b50\u4ee5\u81ea\u5f3a\u4e0d\u606f\uff1b\u5730\u52bf\u5764\uff0c\u541b\u5b50\u4ee5\u539a\u5fb7\u8f7d\u7269\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u522b\u4eba\u600e\u4e48\u5bf9\u4f60\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u600e\u4e48\u56de\u62a5\u56de\u53bb\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u5751\u4eba\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u8fc7\u6cb3\u62c6\u6865\u3002\u2014\u2014 Don\u2019t screw people and don\u2019t burn bridges.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>2. \u5b66\u4e60<\/h3>\n<p>\u82df\u65e5\u65b0\uff0c\u65e5\u65e5\u65b0\uff0c\u53c8\u65e5\u65b0\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8d2a\u5a6a\u5730\u5b66\u4e60\u3002\u2014\u2014Learn voraciously.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/571646902478_.pic_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6095\" src=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/571646902478_.pic_-1024x469.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"286\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/571646902478_.pic_-1024x469.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/571646902478_.pic_-300x137.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/571646902478_.pic_-768x352.jpg 768w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/571646902478_.pic_-624x286.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 625px) 100vw, 625px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u7ecf\u5e38\u505a\u65b0\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u2014\u2014 Do new things often.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>3. \u4e50\u89c2<\/h3>\n<p>\u60a8\u6240\u6e05\u695a\u9884\u89c1\u7684\uff0c\u70ed\u5207\u6e34\u671b\u7684\uff0c\u771f\u8bda\u8ffd\u6c42\u7684\uff0c\u5168\u5fc3\u5168\u610f\u53bb\u4e89\u53d6\u7684\uff0c\u90fd\u4f1a\u81ea\u7136\u800c\u7136\u7684\u5b9e\u73b0\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u751f\u547d\u4e2d\u6240\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u4e00\u5207\uff0c\u90fd\u662f\u4f60\u5438\u5f15\u6765\u7684\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u4f60\u7684\u6b63\u80fd\u91cf\u6709\u591a\u5f3a\uff0c\u4eba\u751f\u5c31\u6709\u591a\u5e78\u8fd0\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4eba\u4eec\u7684\u6f5c\u610f\u8bc6\u6307\u5f15\u7740\u4eba\u751f\uff0c\u4f46\u4eba\u4eec\u8ba4\u4e3a\u90a3\u5c31\u662f\u547d\u8fd0\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u5f53\u4f60\u7279\u522b\u60f3\u505a\u67d0\u4ef6\u4e8b\u6216\u8fbe\u6210\u67d0\u4e2a\u613f\u671b\u65f6\uff0c\u8fd9\u4efd\u4fe1\u5ff5\u5c31\u4f1a\u5316\u4f5c\u5185\u5728\u7684\u9a71\u52a8\u529b\uff0c\u63a8\u7740\u4f60\u4e0d\u65ad\u9760\u8fd1\u76ee\u6807\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u9ad8\u4f30\u78e8\u96be\u548c\u574e\u5777\u7684\u5a01\u529b\uff0c\u4e5f\u522b\u4f4e\u4f30\u575a\u6301\u4e0e\u76f8\u4fe1\u7684\u80fd\u91cf\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5411\u5b87\u5b99\u53d1\u751f\u80fd\u91cf\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u5b83\u7ec8\u5c06\u52a0\u500d\u7684\u53cd\u5c04\u56de\u6765\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6240\u6709\u7684\u4e8b\u5230\u6700\u540e\u90fd\u662f\u597d\u4e8b\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4e0d\u662f\uff0c\u8bf4\u660e\u8fd8\u6ca1\u5230\u6700\u540e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u53ea\u8981\u79ef\u6781\u4e50\u89c2\u9762\u5bf9\u751f\u6d3b\uff0c\u603b\u4f1a\u6709\u597d\u7684\u56de\u62a5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u51e1\u4e8b\u53d1\u751f\u7686\u6709\u5229\u4e8e\u6211\u3002\u2014\u2014\u00a0 \u628a\u201c\u8fd9\u79cd\u4e8b\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u53d1\u751f\u5728\u6211\u8eab\u4e0a\uff1f\u201d\u66ff\u6362\u4e3a\u201c\u8fd9\u79cd\u4e8b\u60f3\u6559\u4f1a\u6211\u4ec0\u4e48\uff1f\u201d\uff0c\u4e00\u5207\u90fd\u5c06\u53d8\u5f97\u4e0d\u540c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u62e5\u6709\u5e7d\u9ed8\u611f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u73b0\u5728\u5c31\u53d8\u5f97\u5174\u594b\u548c\u5feb\u4e50\u3002\u2014\u2014 Get that excited and happy now.<\/p>\n<p>\u953b\u70bc\u3001\u5403\u597d\u3001\u7761\u89c9\u3001\u6709\u89c4\u5f8b\u5730\u878d\u5165\u5927\u81ea\u7136\u3002\u2014\u2014 Exercise.\u00a0 Eat well.\u00a0 Sleep.\u00a0 Get out into nature with some regularity.<\/p>\n<p>\u9752\u6625\u771f\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u4f1f\u5927\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002 \u4e0d\u8981\u6d6a\u8d39\u5b83\u3002\u2014\u2014 Youth\u00a0is a really great thing.\u00a0 Don\u2019t waste it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>4. \u52e4\u594b<\/h3>\n<p>\u5929\u9053\u916c\u52e4\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u4e0a\u5929\u4f1a\u916c\u62a5\u52e4\u594b\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u81ea\u5f8b\u81ea\u7701\uff0c\u7a7a\u676f\u5fc3\u6001\uff0c\u7ec8\u751f\u5b66\u4e60\uff0c\u5229\u4ed6\u591a\u8d62\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u79cd\u74dc\u5f97\u74dc\uff0c\u79cd\u8c46\u5f97\u8c46\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u4f60\u628a\u65f6\u95f4\u82b1\u5728\u54ea\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u6536\u83b7\u5c31\u5728\u54ea\u3002\u4ed8\u51fa\u624d\u6709\u56de\u62a5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u660e\u65e5\u590d\u660e\u65e5\uff0c\u660e\u65e5\u4f55\u5176\u591a\uff0c\u6211\u751f\u5f85\u660e\u65e5\uff0c\u4e07\u4e8b\u7686\u8e49\u8dce\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u73cd\u60dc\u65f6\u95f4<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u6d6a\u8d39\u65f6\u95f4\u3002\u2014\u2014 Don\u2019t waste time.<\/p>\n<p>\u6293\u4f4f\u4eca\u5929\uff0c\u624d\u80fd\u4e0d\u4e22\u5931\u660e\u5929\u3002\u2014\u2014 Seize today, or you will lose tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>5. \u575a\u97e7<\/h3>\n<p>\u6c38\u4e0d\u670d\u8f93\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5185\u6838\u7a33\u5b9a\uff0c\u5141\u8bb8\u4e00\u5207\u53d1\u751f\uff0c\u63a5\u53d7\u4e00\u5207\u65e0\u5e38\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5b9d\u5251\u950b\u81ea\u78e8\u783a\u51fa\uff0c\u6885\u82b1\u9999\u81ea\u82e6\u5bd2\u6765\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6c34\u6ef4\u77f3\u7a7f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>6. \u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb<\/h3>\n<p>\u522b\u5bb3\u6015\u51b2\u7a81\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u5f53\u4f60\u5bb3\u6015\u4e0e\u4eba\u51b2\u7a81\u65f6\uff0c\u51b2\u7a81\u975e\u4f46\u4e0d\u4f1a\u6d88\u5931\uff0c\u53cd\u800c\u4f1a\u66f4\u591a\u3002\u4f60\u8d8a\u9003\u907f\uff0c\u51b2\u7a81\u6765\u7684\u8d8a\u5feb\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u4eab\u53d7\u5b64\u72ec\uff0c\u5b64\u72ec\u4fbf\u662f\u81ea\u7531\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u5b64\u72ec\u8fd9\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u4f60\u5728\u610f\u5b83\uff0c\u5b83\u5c31\u662f\u5b64\u72ec\uff1b\u4f60\u4eab\u53d7\u5b83\uff0c\u5b83\u4fbf\u662f\u81ea\u7531\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6e21\u4eba\u5148\u6e21\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u5408\u9002\u7684\u65f6\u673a\u5411\u9002\u5b9c\u7684\u5bf9\u8c61\u4f20\u9012\u6070\u5f53\u7684\u4fe1\u606f\u3002\u2014\u2014 Communicating the right informational to the right people at the right time.<\/p>\n<p>\u4ee5\u514b\u4eba\u4e4b\u5fc3\u514b\u5df1\uff0c\u4ee5\u5bb9\u5df1\u4e4b\u5fc3\u5bb9\u4eba\u3002\u2014\u2014 Restrain yourself with the heart of restraining others, and tolerate others with the heart of tolerance yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u8868\u73b0\u806a\u660e\u7684\u4eba\u5f80\u5f80\u4f1a\u6bd4\u8868\u73b0\u8fdf\u949d\u7684\u4eba\u6b7b\u5f97\u5feb\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u5965\u5999\u5c31\u5728\u4e8e\u806a\u660e\u4eba\u66f4\u8ba9\u4eba\u611f\u89c9\u5371\u673a\uff0c\u66f4\u5bb9\u6613\u8ba9\u4eba\u9632\u5907\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u542c\u5176\u8a00\uff0c\u89c2\u5176\u884c\u3002\u2014\u2014 Listen to what they say, and more importantly see if they actually act.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u82b1\u65f6\u95f4\u8bd5\u56fe\u4e0e\u4f60\u4e0d\u559c\u6b22\u7684\u4eba\u7ef4\u6301\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u5e76\u5c06\u6d88\u6781\u7684\u4eba\u4ece\u4f60\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u5254\u9664\u3002\u2014\u2014 Don\u2019t spend time trying to maintain relationships with people you don\u2019t like, and cut negative people out of your life.<\/p>\n<p>\u8fdc\u79bb\u4f24\u5bb3\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u8ba9\u81ea\u5df1\u88ab\u4eba\u6446\u5e03\u3002\u2014\u2014 Don\u2019t let yourself get pushed around.<\/p>\n<p>\u5b81\u613f\u6709\u51e0\u4e2a\u771f\u6b63\u4eb2\u5bc6\u7684\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u613f\u6709\u4e00\u767e\u4e2a\u719f\u4eba\u3002\u2014\u2014 Prefer a handful of truly close friends to a hundred acquaintances.<\/p>\n<p>\u7aed\u5c3d\u5168\u529b\u4e0e\u806a\u660e\u3001\u6709\u8da3\u3001\u96c4\u5fc3\u52c3\u52c3\u7684\u4eba\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002\u2014\u2014 Go out of your way to be around smart, interesting, ambitious people.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u884c\u52a8\u524d\u5148\u601d\u8003\u51e0\u79d2\u949f\u3002 \u5982\u679c\u4f60\u751f\u6c14\u4e86\uff0c\u60f3\u51e0\u5206\u949f\u3002\u2014\u2014 Think for a few seconds before you act.\u00a0 Think for a few minutes if you\u2019re angry.<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u592a\u5feb\u5730\u8bc4\u5224\u522b\u4eba\u3002 \u4f60\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u6574\u4e2a\u6545\u4e8b\u4ee5\u53ca\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u505a\u6216\u4e0d\u505a\u67d0\u4e8b\u3002 \u8981\u6709\u540c\u7406\u5fc3\u3002\u2014\u2014 Don\u2019t judge other people too quickly.\u00a0 You never know their whole story and why they did or didn\u2019t do something.\u00a0 Be empathetic.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u6b3a\u8d1f\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u56e0\u4f60\u7684\u8f6f\u5f31\u800c\u6765\uff1b<\/p>\n<p>\u6b23\u8d4f\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u56e0\u4f60\u7684\u81ea\u4fe1\u800c\u6765\uff1b<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u5728\u4e4e\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u56e0\u4f60\u7684\u5351\u5fae\u800c\u6765\uff1b<\/p>\n<p>\u7231\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u56e0\u4f60\u7684\u81ea\u7231\u800c\u6765\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u9047\u5230\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u90fd\u662f\u88ab\u4f60\u7684\u80fd\u91cf\u6240\u5438\u5f15\uff0c\u4f60\u662f\u8c01\uff0c\u5c31\u4f1a\u9047\u89c1\u8c01\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u4ee5\u5229\u76f8\u4ea4\uff0c\u5229\u5c3d\u5219\u6563\uff1b\u4ee5\u52bf\u76f8\u4ea4\uff0c\u52bf\u8d25\u5219\u503e\uff1b\u4ee5\u6743\u76f8\u4ea4\uff0c\u6743\u5931\u5219\u5f03\uff1b\u4ee5\u60c5\u76f8\u4ea4\uff0c\u60c5\u65ad\u5219\u4f24\uff1b\u552f\u4ee5\u5fc3\u76f8\u4ea4\uff0c\u65b9\u80fd\u6210\u4e45\u8fdc\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0e\u4eba\u76f8\u5904\u4e00\u5fcc\u4ea4\u6d45\u8a00\u6df1\uff0c\u4e8c\u5fcc\u6ca1\u6709\u8fb9\u754c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5bf9\u4e8e\u4efb\u4f55\u6ca1\u6709\u5177\u4f53\u56de\u62a5\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u6ca1\u6709\u5fc5\u8981\u4e0e\u522b\u4eba\u53d1\u751f\u4e89\u6267\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u6d6a\u8d39\u65f6\u95f4\u53bb\u505a\u8fd9\u79cd\u6ca1\u6709\u6536\u76ca\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60f3\u8981\u8bf4\u670d\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u8981\u8bc9\u8bf8\u5229\u76ca\uff0c\u800c\u975e\u8bc9\u8bf8\u7406\u6027\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u591a\u4e0e\u4eba\u4ea4\u8c08\u3002 \u591a\u9605\u8bfb\u957f\u7684\u6df1\u5ea6\u5185\u5bb9\u3002\u638c\u63e1\u4fe1\u606f\uff0c\u6c72\u53d6\u77e5\u8bc6\u2014\u2014 Talk to people more.\u00a0 Read more long content.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>7. \u6b32\u671b<\/h3>\n<p>\u51e1\u4e8b\u4f60\u60f3\u63a7\u5236\u7684\uff0c\u5176\u5b9e\u90fd\u63a7\u5236\u4e86\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u3002\u2014\u2014 Everything you want to control actually controls yourself in turn.<\/p>\n<p>\u53ea\u6709\u6b32\u671b\u7684\u589e\u957f\u6162\u4e8e\u5b9e\u529b\u7684\u589e\u957f\uff0c\u624d\u80fd\u62e5\u6709\u5e78\u798f\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4ef0\u671b\u661f\u7a7a\uff0c\u811a\u8e0f\u5b9e\u5730\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>8. \u8d22\u5bcc<\/h3>\n<p>\u65e0\u8bba\u91d1\u94b1\u662f\u5426\u80fd\u4e70\u5230\u5e78\u798f\uff0c\u5b83\u80fd\u4e70\u5230\u81ea\u7531\u3002\u2014\u2014 Whether or not money can buy happiness, it can buy freedom.<\/p>\n<p>\u6295\u8d44\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u4e09\u89d2\uff1a\u6536\u76ca\u9ad8\u3001\u98ce\u9669\u4f4e\u3001\u6d41\u52a8\u6027\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>9. \u81ea\u7701<\/h3>\n<p>\u77e5\u4eba\u8005\u667a\uff0c\u81ea\u77e5\u8005\u660e\u3002 \u2014\u2014 Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment.<\/p>\n<p>\u80dc\u4eba\u8005\u6709\u529b\uff0c\u81ea\u80dc\u8005\u5f3a\u3002 \u2014\u2014 Mastering others is strength, mastering yourself is true power.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1>\u4e8c\u3001\u4e8b\u4e1a\u7bc7<\/h1>\n<h3>1. \u9886\u5bfc\u529b<\/h3>\n<p>A leader is a dealer in hope.<br \/>\n\u9886\u8896\u5c31\u662f\u8d29\u5356\u5e0c\u671b\u7684\u5546\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG53.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6098\" src=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG53-1024x509.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG53-1024x509.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG53-300x149.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG53-768x382.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG53-624x310.jpeg 624w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG53.jpeg 1166w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 625px) 100vw, 625px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u5e72\u8106\u5229\u7d22\uff0c\u96f7\u5389\u98ce\u884c\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u6709\u611f\u67d3\u529b\u3001\u6709\u6fc0\u60c5\u3001\u7cbe\u795e\u6296\u64de\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u975e\u804c\u6743\u9886\u5bfc\u529b\u7684\u5efa\u7acb\u65b9\u6cd5\u5c31\u662f\u79ef\u6781\u5e2e\u52a9\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u505a\u5927\u5bb6\u7684\u4e13\u4e1a\u6559\u7ec3\u548c\u7cbe\u795e\u5bfc\u5e08\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u5728\u91cd\u5927\u4e8b\u4ef6\u4e2d\u80fd\u8d77\u5230\u8868\u7387\u548c\u699c\u6837\u4f5c\u7528\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>2. \u9009\u62e9<\/h3>\n<p>\u6709\u5f97\u5fc5\u6709\u5931\uff0c\u5173\u952e\u662f\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u80fd\u91cf\u5b88\u6052\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5148\u53bb\u505a\u4f60\u5e94\u8be5\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u518d\u53bb\u505a\u4f60\u559c\u6b22\u7684\u4e8b\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u524d\u8005\u8ba9\u4f60\u6709\u996d\u5403\uff0c\u540e\u8005\u8ba9\u4f60\u6709\u5ff5\u60f3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u66f4\u5c11\uff0c\u4f46\u66f4\u597d\u3002Fewer things done better.<\/p>\n<p>\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u6709\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9053\u8def\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u4f60\u9700\u8981\u8ba4\u6e05\u695a\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u8c01\uff0c\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u613f\u610f\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u7136\u540e\u4f60\u4f1a\u53d1\u73b0\uff0c\u89e3\u51b3\u81ea\u5df1\u7279\u6709\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u65b9\u6848\uff0c\u662f\u9700\u8981\u91cf\u8eab\u5b9a\u5236\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f59\u751f\u5f88\u8d35\uff0c\u62d2\u7edd\u5185\u8017\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4eba\u751f\u6700\u6015\u7684\u4e8b\u4e4b\u4e00\u5c31\u662f\u628a\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u773c\u5149\u5f53\u6210\u81ea\u5df1\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u6807\u51c6\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u5230\u6700\u540e\uff0c\u65e2\u6ca1\u6709\u6d3b\u6210\u522b\u4eba\u559c\u6b22\u7684\u6837\u5b50\uff0c\u4e5f\u6ca1\u6709\u81ea\u5df1\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u6837\u5b50\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u4f60\u72b9\u8c6b\u8981\u4e0d\u8981\u505a\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\u60c5\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u5185\u5fc3\u5df2\u7ecf\u6709\u4e86\u9009\u62e9\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u4f60\u8fd8\u6ca1\u6709\u5145\u8db3\u7684\u7406\u7531\u8bf4\u670d\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u65f6\u95f4\u6781\u5176\u6709\u9650\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u8fc7\u5f97\u5f88\u5feb\u3002 \u505a\u8ba9\u4f60\u5feb\u4e50\u548c\u6ee1\u8db3\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u2014\u2014 Time is extremely limited and goes by fast.\u00a0 Do what makes you happy and fulfilled.<\/p>\n<p>\u9009\u62e9\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u53bb\u505a\uff08\u8fd9\u4e00\u70b9\u5f88\u5173\u952e\uff0c\u4f46\u901a\u5e38\u88ab\u5ffd\u89c6\uff09\u3001\u4e13\u6ce8\u3001\u76f8\u4fe1\u81ea\u5df1\uff08\u5c24\u5176\u662f\u5f53\u522b\u4eba\u544a\u8bc9\u4f60\u8fd9\u884c\u4e0d\u901a\u65f6\uff09\u3001\u4e0e\u80fd\u5e2e\u52a9\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\u5efa\u7acb\u4e2a\u4eba\u8054\u7cfb\u3002 \u2014\u2014 pick the right thing to do (this is critical and usually ignored), focus, believe in yourself (especially when others tell you it\u2019s not going to work), develop personal connections with people that will help you.<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u628a\u65f6\u95f4\u6d6a\u8d39\u5728\u65e0\u7ec4\u7ec7\u6027\u3001\u5728\u6b21\u4f18\u5de5\u4f5c\u7b49\u65b9\u9762\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u5bb3\u6015\u627f\u62c5\u4e00\u4e9b\u98ce\u9669\u3002\u2014\u2014 don\u2019t waste time being unorganized, working at suboptimal times, etc.\u00a0\u00a0Don\u2019t be afraid to take some career risks.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u5927\u591a\u6570\u4eba\u90fd\u8fc7\u4e8e\u89c4\u907f\u98ce\u9669\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u5927\u591a\u6570\u5efa\u8bae\u90fd\u8fc7\u4e8e\u504f\u5411\u4fdd\u5b88\u8def\u7ebf\u3002\u2014\u2014 Most people are too risk-averse, and so most advice is biased too much towards conservative paths.<\/p>\n<p>\u8be2\u95ee\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002\u2014\u2014 Ask for what you want.<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u8ba4\u4e3a\u4e0d\u505a\u67d0\u4ef6\u4e8b\u4f60\u4f1a\u540e\u6094\uff0c\u4f60\u4e5f\u8bb8\u5e94\u8be5\u53bb\u505a\u3002\u2014\u2014 If you think you\u2019re going to regret not doing something, you should probably do it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u5c3d\u91cf\u51cf\u5c11\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8ba4\u77e5\u8d1f\u62c5\uff0c\u907f\u514d\u8ba9\u90a3\u4e9b\u65e0\u5173\u7d27\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u5206\u6563\u6ce8\u610f\u529b\u3002\u2014\u2014 Minimize your own cognitive load from distracting things that don\u2019t really matter.<\/p>\n<p>\u4fdd\u6301\u8f83\u4f4e\u7684\u4e2a\u4eba\u6d88\u8017\u7387\u3002 \u4ec5\u8fd9\u4e00\u70b9\u5c31\u4f1a\u7ed9\u4f60\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u5e26\u6765\u5f88\u591a\u673a\u4f1a\u3002\u2014\u2014 Keep your personal burn rate low.\u00a0 This alone will give you a lot of opportunities in life.<\/p>\n<p>\u5927\u591a\u6570\u4e8b\u60c5\u53ea\u8981\u9002\u5ea6\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e86\u3002\u2014\u2014 Most things are ok in moderation.<\/p>\n<p>\u533a\u5206\u5ba2\u89c2\u4e8b\u5b9e\u548c\u4e3b\u89c2\u611f\u53d7\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>3. \u51b3\u7b56<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4e0d\u80fd\u81ea\u5df1\u5b89\u6392\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u4f18\u5148\u6b21\u5e8f\uff0c\u5c31\u53ea\u80fd\u4efb\u7531\u522b\u4eba\u66ff\u4f60\u5b89\u6392\u3002\u2014\u2014 If you don\u2019t prioritize your life, someone else will.<\/p>\n<p>\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u5934\u7b49\u5927\u4e8b\uff0c\u662f\u786e\u4fdd\u81ea\u5df1\u6709\u80fd\u529b\u51b3\u65ad\u4ec0\u4e48\u624d\u662f\u5934\u7b49\u5927\u4e8b\u3002\u2014\u2014 Our highest priority is to protect our ability to prioritize.<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u5f88\u597d\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\u51fa\u73b0\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u5e94\u8be5\u6293\u4f4f\u5b83\u3002\u2014\u2014 If a great opportunity comes along you should take it.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be afraid to do something slightly reckless.<\/p>\n<p>\u653e\u5f03\uff0c\u6b62\u635f\u5c31\u662f\u6700\u5927\u7684\u8d62\u3002\u2014\u2014 Win big by cutting your losses.<\/p>\n<p>\u627e\u5230\u76ee\u6807\uff0c\u505a\u597d\u89c4\u5212\uff0c\u52aa\u529b\u884c\u52a8\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5c06\u519b\u8d76\u8def\uff0c\u4e0d\u8ffd\u5c0f\u5154\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6218\u672f\u662f\u5175\u6765\u5c06\u6321\uff0c\u6218\u7565\u662f\u672a\u96e8\u7ef8\u7f2a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5f3a\u8005\u4e0d\u6015\u72af\u9519\uff0c\u6562\u4e8e\u8bd5\u9519\uff0c\u5927\u4e0d\u4e86\u9519\u4e86\u6539\u6216\u91cd\u6765\uff1b\u5f31\u8005\u5904\u5904\u5c0f\u5fc3\uff0c\u5162\u5162\u4e1a\u4e1a\uff0c\u96be\u4ee5\u53d6\u5f97\u5927\u7684\u7a81\u7834\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e00\u4e2a\u5bb3\u6015\u5c1d\u8bd5\u3001\u8fd8\u6015\u5931\u8d25\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u5230\u8fbe\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5929\u82b1\u677f\uff0c\u800c\u65e0\u6cd5\u8fdb\u4e00\u6b65\u6210\u957f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>4. \u89c4\u5212<\/h3>\n<p>\u6e05\u6670\u7684\u76ee\u6807\u4f1a\u5e26\u7ed9\u4f60\u81ea\u4fe1\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u4f60\u77e5\u9053\u8981\u53bb\u5f80\u54ea\u91cc\u4ee5\u53ca\u5982\u4f55\u5230\u8fbe\u90a3\u91cc\u3002\u2014\u2014 Goals produce the confidence that comes from knowing where you are going and how you will get there.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG54.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6097\" src=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG54.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"982\" height=\"715\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG54.jpeg 982w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG54-300x218.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG54-768x559.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/WechatIMG54-624x454.jpeg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 982px) 100vw, 982px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u5e38\u6709\u4eba\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u8bf4\uff0c\u8f66\u5230\u5c71\u524d\u5fc5\u6709\u8def\u3002\u4f46\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4e16\u754c\u662f\u5c5e\u4e8e\u90a3\u4e9b\u9884\u5148\u5728\u5fc3\u4e2d\u89c4\u5212\u4e86\u6210\u529f\u8def\u5f84\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u2014\u2014 We are told never to cross a bridge util we come to it. But the world is owned by individuals who have \u201ccrossed birdge\u201d in their imaginations far ahead of the crowd.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/551646902476_.pic_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6091\" src=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/551646902476_.pic_-1024x729.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"445\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/551646902476_.pic_-1024x729.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/551646902476_.pic_-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/551646902476_.pic_-768x547.jpg 768w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/551646902476_.pic_-624x444.jpg 624w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/551646902476_.pic_.jpg 1079w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 625px) 100vw, 625px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u5173\u952e\u4e0d\u662f\u60f3\u8d62\u7684\u90a3\u4efd\u6e34\u671b\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u6709\u3002\u5173\u952e\u662f\u4e3a\u8d62\u5f97\u6bd4\u8d5b\u505a\u597d\u4e86\u5145\u5206\u7684\u51c6\u5907\u3002\u2014\u2014 The key is not the will to win. Everybody has that. It is the will to prepare to win, and that is important.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/561646902477_.pic_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6096\" src=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/561646902477_.pic_-1024x470.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"287\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/561646902477_.pic_-1024x470.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/561646902477_.pic_-300x138.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/561646902477_.pic_-768x353.jpg 768w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/561646902477_.pic_-624x287.jpg 624w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/561646902477_.pic_.jpg 1237w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 625px) 100vw, 625px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>5. \u884c\u52a8<\/h3>\n<p>\u505a\u4e00\u4e2a\u5b9e\u5e72\u5bb6\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u7a7a\u8c08\u5bb6\u3002\u2014\u2014 Be a doer, not a talker.<\/p>\n<p>Idea\u662f\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u6700\u4e0d\u503c\u94b1\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u6267\u884c\u6c38\u8fdc\u662f\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u79ef\u8dec\u6b65\uff0c\u65e0\u4ee5\u81f3\u5343\u91cc\uff1b\u4e0d\u79ef\u5c0f\u6d41\uff0c\u65e0\u4ee5\u6210\u6c5f\u6d77\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u6162\u4e00\u70b9\uff0c\u4e00\u6b65\u4e00\u4e2a\u811a\u5370\uff0c\u6bcf\u5929\u6162\u6162\u5411\u524d\u632a\u4e00\u70b9\uff0c\u662f\u901a\u5f80\u68a6\u60f3\u6700\u575a\u5b9e\u7684\u8def\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u56e0\u4e3a\u52aa\u529b\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u5e78\u8fd0\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u4e0d\u5c3d\u529b\u7684\u613f\u671b\u90fd\u662f\u778e\u60f3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5148\u5b8c\u6210\uff0c\u518d\u5b8c\u7f8e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60f3\u5168\u662f\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u505a\u5168\u662f\u7b54\u6848\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u505a\u4e8b\u524d\u5148\u770b\u79ef\u6781\u548c\u5149\u660e\uff0c\u5b57\u5178\u91cc\u6ca1\u6709&#8217;\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd&#8217;\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u673a\u4f1a\u662f\u7559\u7ed9\u6709\u51c6\u5907\u7684\u4eba\u7684\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u547d\u8fd0\u638c\u63e1\u5728\u81ea\u5df1\u624b\u4e2d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u597d\u7684\u6784\u60f3\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u5f00\u59cb\u5c31\u6210\u5f62\uff0c\u5b83\u662f\u5728\u4f60\u5b9e\u73b0\u7684\u8fc7\u7a0b\u4e2d\u53d8\u5f97\u66f4\u52a0\u6e05\u6670\uff0c\u4f60\u53ea\u9700\u8981\u7740\u624b\u53bb\u505a\u3002\u2014\u2014 Ideas don\u2019t come out fully formed.They only become clear as you work on them.You just have to get started.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/just-start.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7883\" src=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/just-start.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"840\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/just-start.jpeg 840w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/just-start-300x188.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/just-start-768x480.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/just-start-624x390.jpeg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u4e00\u5207\u56f0\u60d1\u6e90\u4e8e\u5185\u5fc3\u4e0d\u786e\u5b9a\u3002\u4e00\u5207\u7684\u7406\u60f3\u4ee5\u884c\u52a8\u4e3a\u51c6\u7ef3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6ca1\u6709\u5929\u751f\u5b8c\u7f8e\u7684\u8ba1\u5212\uff0c\u53ea\u6709\u4e00\u6d41\u7684\u6267\u884c\u529b\u53bb\u8ba9\u4e00\u4e2a\u8ba1\u5212\u5b8c\u7f8e\u544a\u7ec8\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u505a\u4efb\u4f55\u4e8b\uff0c\u5148\u5f00\u59cb\u518d\u8bf4\u3002\u53ea\u8981\u5f00\u59cb\u4e86\uff0c\u5176\u4ed6\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u5c31\u90fd\u4e0d\u662f\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u90a3\u4e9b\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u5728\u591c\u665a\u8212\u9002\u7684\u7761\u7720\u91cc\uff0c\u9759\u9759\u878d\u5316\uff0c\u5dee\u4e00\u70b9\u6210\u4e3a\u73b0\u5b9e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8a00\u5fc5\u4fe1\uff0c\u884c\u5fc5\u679c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>6. \u56f0\u96be<\/h3>\n<p>\u5173\u5173\u96be\u8fc7\u5173\u5173\u8fc7\uff0c\u524d\u8def\u6f2b\u6f2b\u4ea6\u707f\u707f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5c0f\u4e8b\u4e00\u6869\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\u5373\u4f7f\u9762\u5bf9\u5343\u519b\u4e07\u9a6c\uff0c\u4f60\u8981\u65a9\u6740\u7684\u5176\u5b9e\u53ea\u662f\u4f60\u9762\u524d\u7684\u4e00\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u884c\u6709\u4e0d\u5f97\uff0c\u5185\u6c42\u8bf8\u5df1\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u4ece\u81ea\u5df1\u8eab\u4e0a\u627e\u539f\u56e0\uff0c\u63d0\u5347\u548c\u6539\u53d8\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u624d\u80fd\u771f\u6b63\u901a\u5411\u5e78\u798f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4eba\u751f\u4e4b\u4e0d\u5982\u610f\u5341\u4e4b\u516b\u4e5d\u3002\u2014\u2014 \u987a\u5883\u65f6\u8981\u6e05\u9192\uff0c\u9006\u5883\u65f6\u8981\u575a\u6301\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u95ee\u9898\u4e0d\u4f1a\u6d88\u5931\uff0c\u76f4\u5230\u5b83\u6559\u4f1a\u4e86\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u5b66\u4e60\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\u3002\u2014\u2014 A problem doesn&#8217;t go away until it has taught you what you needed to learn.<\/p>\n<p>\u5f3a\u8005\u4ece\u4e0d\u62b1\u6028\u73af\u5883\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5fc3\u5b58\u611f\u6fc0\uff0c\u6b63\u786e\u770b\u5f85\u95ee\u9898\u3002 \u4e0d\u8981\u62b1\u6028\u592a\u591a\u3002\u2014\u2014 Be grateful and keep problems in perspective.\u00a0 Don\u2019t complain too much.<\/p>\n<p>\u50bb\u74dc\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u8fd9\u4e8b\u662f\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u7684\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4ed6\u505a\u5230\u4e86\u3002\u00a0 \u00a0\u2014\u2014 The fool didn\u2019t know it was impossible, so he did it.<a href=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/581646902480_.pic_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6094\" src=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/581646902480_.pic_-1024x471.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"287\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/581646902480_.pic_-1024x471.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/581646902480_.pic_-300x138.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/581646902480_.pic_-768x353.jpg 768w, https:\/\/yanjingang.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/581646902480_.pic_-624x287.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 625px) 100vw, 625px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u53ea\u8981\u5c3d\u529b\u800c\u4e3a\uff0c\u95ee\u5fc3\u65e0\u6127\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u7ed3\u679c\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u662f\u5931\u8d25\u8005\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u6709\u673a\u4f1a\u6c72\u53d6\u4e86\u5931\u8d25\u7684\u7ecf\u9a8c\uff0c\u83b7\u5f97\u4e86\u6210\u957f\u3002\u6210\u529f\u4e0e\u5931\u8d25\u4ea4\u66ff\u5e76\u5b58\uff0c\u8fd9\u5c31\u662f\u4eba\u751f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e0d\u505c\u7684\u62b1\u6028\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u4f60\u53d8\u6210\u7965\u6797\u5ac2\uff0c\u4f20\u64ad\u8d1f\u80fd\u91cf\u4ee5\u5916\uff0c\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e5f\u6539\u53d8\u4e0d\u4e86\uff0c\u5c31\u50cf\u5c0f\u5b69\u54ed\u89e3\u51b3\u4e0d\u4e86\u95ee\u9898\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u5927\u4eba\u62b1\u6028\u4e5f\u662f\u89e3\u51b3\u4e0d\u4e86\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u4f60\u60f3\u62b1\u6028\u65f6\uff0c\u8bf7\u505c\u4e0b\u6765\uff0c\u628a\u65f6\u95f4\u7528\u5728\u89e3\u51b3\u8fd9\u4e2a\u95ee\u9898\u4e0a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4efb\u4f55\u4e8b\u60c5\u65e0\u8bba\u591a\u4e48\u56f0\u96be\u90fd\u662f\u6709\u89e3\u51b3\u529e\u6cd5\u7684\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd100%\u89e3\u51b3\u5b83\uff0c\u90a3\u4e5f\u8981\u628a\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u6839\u6e90\u627e\u5230\uff0c\u80fd\u89e3\u51b3\u591a\u5c11\u662f\u591a\u5c11\uff0c\u4e0d\u80fd\u89e3\u51b3\u7684\u90e8\u5206\u5148\u8bb0\u5f55\u5e76\u6401\u7f6e\u8d77\u6765\uff0c\u5f53\u6761\u4ef6\u6210\u719f\u65f6\u518d\u8fdb\u884c\u89e3\u51b3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u5b58\u5728\u7126\u8651\u662f\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u4e00\u90e8\u5206\u3002\u2014\u2014 Existential angst is part of life.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>7. \u6fc0\u52b1<\/h3>\n<p>\u5b66\u4f1a\u5956\u52b1\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u534a\u5c71\u8170\u603b\u662f\u6bd4\u8f83\u6324\uff0c\u4f60\u5f97\u53bb\u5c71\u9876\u770b\u770b\uff0c\u5c71\u9876\u7684\u98ce\u666f\u66f4\u7f8e\u66f4\u5e7f\u9614\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8981\u771f\u6b63\u505a\u597d\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u5fc5\u987b\u4ece\u5c0f\u5904\u7740\u624b\uff0c\u521b\u9020\u5c0f\u80dc\u52a8\u529b\u3002\u2014\u2014 To really get essential things done, we need to start small and build small success momentum.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>8. \u7ba1\u7406<\/h3>\n<p>\u5e26\u4eba\uff1a\u79c0\u808c\u8089\uff0c\u8ba9\u4eba\u670d\u4f60\uff1b\u5e2e\u5927\u5fd9\uff0c\u8ba9\u4eba\u611f\u6069\uff1b\u5229\u76ca\u4ea4\u6362\uff0c\u5404\u53d6\u6240\u9700\uff0c\u5408\u4f5c\u5171\u8d62<\/p>\n<p>\u9879\u76ee\u751f\u547d\u5468\u671f\uff1a\u80cc\u666f \u2014&gt; \u95ee\u9898 \u2014&gt;\u00a0 \u62c6\u89e3 \u2014&gt;\u00a0 \u89e3\u51b3\u65b9\u6848 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